12 Top Feminine And 12 Top Masculine Traits That Could Change Your Life

Top 12 Masculine + Feminine Traits

That attitude made my life pretty rough. It didn’t allow me to be a strong, full, human living a full human experience. The world’s great masters have all wept. They’ve all shown emotion. They’re all passionate, if you pay attention.

So I learned. I learned that I could choose any quality I wanted, and be whatever I wanted.

I also learned that some qualities are better at certain times, and certain situations, for me personally.

I also learned that I generally lean towards ‘masculine’ qualities, and I like it that way. It’s my preference.

So if you’re like me, maybe no one taught you anything about this. Maybe your life could be a lot better, especially in relationships whether business or personal.

And I want to help, so I’m gonna share what I’ve learned.

There are a variety of qualities people can embody, but they don’t teach you much about them in school. You could be missing out on some qualities that will create amazing results in your life, because you’ve never really paid attention to them. Take an easy step to changing that, read about them below.

Can you feel it? If you pay attention, can you?

Right now, this very moment, can you feel how developed your ‘integrity’ is? Or how ‘radiant’ you are?

Some people have never even seen those words.

Some people get it, though. They’re sensitive to what qualities they’re bringing to the table.

And people have a sort of, unspoken agreement on which qualities are ‘more masculine’ and which are ‘more feminine’.

Of course, everyone has the option – they feel inside that they have the freedom to express any quality they want, it’s true.

Everyone can also feel whether or not they’ve developed certain qualities well or not-so-well.

If you haven’t developed certain qualities, there’s a strong chance could be making your life… well… suck. If you step up and focus on them clearly, you can generate massive change.

A loner who’s spent his whole life focused on, and driven towards money, might get huge benefits from focusing a bit on sharing, patience, and love.

A social-butterfly who’s flitted from group to group, never really standing for something or building something substantial, might get big results from focusing on stability, discipline, and authenticity.

So understanding these two sides and using them to rock your life, is recommended.

"Of course once you are enlightened, you have gone beyond the discrimination of sexes. Beyond enlightenment, you are simply human beings. But before that…. Be proud of your qualities. Increase them, refine them because they are the path towards godliness. Man is not in a better position than woman as far as religious experience is concerned." – Osho

Now this doesn’t mean you need masculine or feminine qualities, it’s to help you have clarity and freedom to create a personal blend of qualities that suit you. And they’ll even change at different times.

Irina Krush – http://bigthink.com/ideas/24776


If you’re a chick (or like being feminine): Refine these qualities, really embody them and live them in every moment you get the chance to. Make them be a magical part of what other people feel from you.

If you’re a guy (or like being masculine): Realize that these have a role, they are not to be judged, they are to be leveraged to help you reach your goals.

  • Surrender
  • Reception
  • Emotion
  • Radiance
  • Flow
  • Sensuality
  • Nurturing
  • Affection
  • Sharing
  • Gentleness
  • Patience
  • Love

Come on now, how many of you would be thrilled and head over heels if someone in your life was more "receptive, radiant, and surrendered" ?


If you’re a guy (or like being masculine): Refine these qualities, focus on them, really perfect them and extend them as much as you can.

If you’re a chick (or like being feminine): Realize these qualities exist and they can add to your radiance, beauty, and how you connect with other human beings. You could use a little of these in your life.

  • Freedom
  • Direction
  • Logic
  • Focus
  • Integrity
  • Stability
  • Passion
  • Independence
  • Discipline
  • Confidence
  • Aware
  • Authentic

Be real, how many of you would love someone in your life to be more "Aware, authentic, and confident"?

(Remember: Like attracts like. If you want it, you’ve gotta be a MATCH for it.)

Alright, so these are some of the key traits that you can make use of.

Chances are that there’s some on this list that can change your life in very, very good ways, but it takes some honesty.

You gotta take a good look at your life and yourself, and see what suits you.

For a lot of people it’s scary to say "I enjoy surrender. I’d like to do that more often in safe environments." For others it’s scary to say "I’m passionate and authentic and I do what I want, when I want, consequences or not."

Like most scary things in life, if you can amp yourself up, psyche yourself up, and imagine the new, improved, better version of you, and take the steps — the rewards are great.

So don’t wait, don’t delay, don’t hesitate — open up your email client right now, and send yourself and email that says:

"I now choose to be habitually more <BLANK>." – where <BLANK> is a trait that’s calling to you.

And I’m really interested in what traits are doin’ it for you, so leave a 1 word answer in the comments, which trait is your focus for now.


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46 thoughts on “12 Top Feminine And 12 Top Masculine Traits That Could Change Your Life

  1. Great post Jason! I will definitely be rereading this article a few more times to really soak in the goodness.

    My word is Discipline. Nothing quite beats consistency on ever-improving ones personal success habits.

    • Thanks man, re-reading is really powerful. It gives your mind and body space to absorb the fresh ideas and make them a habit. And you can get faster at it :)

      Discipline / consistency in success-habits is awesome. Keep rockin’ man!

      • Deep Think on said:

        Much is said today about women having the necessary traits that make them better leaders than men. For Example Alexis Parks has written a book entitled “Hard Wired” in which she states science has proven only women are hardwired with the 10 necessary traits to be a great leader. She has an organization called 56%.org in which is striving to get 56% of leaders at all levels to be females.

        According to her we would have to conclude that there has never been a truly great male leader. How could there be since men are lacking in the 10 necessary traits (all of them female by the way) that is necessary to be a great leader.

        Not only is this insulting to men it is also dangerous. If her ideas ever went main stream and acepted it would realy spell the end of men. What company would dare have a male in a leadership position? It would be like advertising we don’t really care about having the best leadership in our business even though we know women are better leaders we are going with men anyway!!

        But even if true women shouldn’t make sure every male promoter knows men make inferior leaders because no one male or female will promote some one susperior

        to themselves to leadership for fear of losing their job.Instead of promoting female

        susperiority which aught to promote their defferences which creates diversity which diversity leads to greater productiveity. Say it like this.We need more female leaders not because women are better leaders but because women are different which diferance when added to the male difference makes a great diviference which is that diversity is created which leads to greater productiveity.

        Wouldn’t it be better to stop labeling traits as either femineme or masquline. Lets just call all traits human traits. Men do not want to be feminized. So for example if empathy is a very desireable trait for leadership then men if they think thats a femine trait will not seek to develop it.But if there is no label than men will seek to develope empathy because they won’t connect it with femine traits. So get rid of the labels.

  2. I asked kawlinz to help me and we both came up with almost same ones:
    Emotion I think with my heart then my head, nurturing- speaks for itself, Affection did you know people who get hugs 12 times or more a day are more well rounded, balanced and succesful, sharing- whats mine can be yours (= and love I have alot to give <3

  3. Hey Jason, I dig this post man! Really awesome stuff here! Embodying different characteristics of the masculine and feminine essence is very powerful! I think you may have already, but David Deida has some real cool books very similar to what you talk about – one I like a lot is The Way of the Superior Man.

    • So glad to hear it Matt! Respect.

      Hahhaha! It’s funny you mention Deida. I’m nearly obsessive about him. I made a website for his right-hand chick (Michaela Boehm), and I once made a 100mb Tribute Downloadable ZIP of his works (quotes, posters, audios, interviews, etc.).

      I might have it somewhere if you want it.

      Thanks for being here and contributing man!

      • P.S. Have you read the sex god method? I think you would like it. I have a copy if you want (and probably some other stuff too.) Shoot me an email when you’re free. Peace !

  4. Haha, oh man, I love connecting with like-minded people. It is like family members I didn’t know existed… all who have similar mindsets, beliefs, and goals…. and who have also read/studied the same content – so cool!
    Dude, that zip would be awesome! Let me know if you don’t have my email. And sure thing brother, keep up the greatness !!

    • And this post loves YOU, Tor.

      And that’s thing, according to Deida, you CAN’T attract said “superior man” until you yourself can animate and express that ‘surrender’ at all times, in your mind and body, habitually.

      Then the guy can be attracted.

      So says the great and powerful Deida :)

  5. Hah! I grew since this post was written and I am now able to demonstrate more powerfully-uplifting authenticity with myself and with the public. I now know that my word is actually surrender too, surrender to LOVE!

    It’s the best feeling, the appropriate focus, it’s a meaningful intention, it helps ever-grow, ever Ryze it, when you prioritize it. Love, that is :) :) :)

    Thank you for the focus, and the uber-good mentoring session today!

  6. For me, it’s FLOW……………. I need to flow with stuff and just be happy in order to join the flow of the universe and be part of the party. That was how I used to roll, man and I was THE s$it (do you allow such phrases on your blog?) but I lost my way and I am trying to find that awesome version of myself it seems I have lost. She’s in there somwhere, buried by the crap life threw at her, yet I must find her and release her again.

    That was the feminine word. The masculine word would be PASSION, because that is what life’s about!

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  8. I enjoyed reading this article, but I don’t agree with the fact that your biological sex ties you together with either the feminine or masculine traits. That is, I don’t think it’s fair to assume a man or woman has certain traits to refine due to their genitalia. I know that wasn’t the point of the article, which is why I still got something out of it…we can all use a blending of characteristics to be better, happier people. However, this was just something I thought about when reading.

    • Thanks Erica! Glad you enjoyed!

      And I’m glad you pointed out that these traits aren’t necessarily tied to a specific gender. I did point it out in the beginning of the article:

      “…everyone has the option – they feel inside that they have the freedom to express any quality they want”

      “We can all use a blending…” Yes! Your comment helps make that clearer. Well said.

      It might be worth considering if we’re born into a body to “overcome” it’s type, or “co operate” with it – either way, everyone has their own path and challenges :)

      Keep ryzing, Erica!
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