I notice that people feel lonely.
I notice that people feel limited.
I notice that people feel pissed off.
I notice that people feel frustrated, overwhelmed, busy.
I notice that people feel bored, flatlined, numb.
I notice that they feel restless.
I notice they're confused.
And I notice that they spin and spin and spin in cycles of these horrible feelings.
And then there's the people who feel pretty good, but in my world, that's not playing big enough.
They spend most of their days, simply 'content'.
They're eager, but not passionate.
They're growing, but not claiming.
And what does this look like? What's the physical evidence for all this?
Clutter. Clutter everywhere. Clutter in their thoughts, clutter in their homes. Shackled by stuff.
Stuckness. Lack of production. Lack of inspiration. Lack of creativity. Going through motions. Same shit, different day. Nothing new. No new ideas. No new people. No new conversations.
Conflict. Disharmony. Always having to prove yourself. Defend yourself. Explain yourself. Justify yourself.
Nay-saying. A life of 'no'. No to social engagements. No to friends. No to family. No to business. No to opportunities. No to relationships. Passing on parties. Skipping sensuality.
Tension. Worry. Nervousness. Concern. Fear. Tight, held breathing. Shallow breathing. Achey muscles. Compressed, closed posture.
Numbness. Lack of dreams. Lack of desire. Not wanting anything. Not caring about much. No sense of purpose. No vision.
Cynicism. Trust no one. Over-analyze everything. Put down by default. Close down by default. Shoots others down in the guise of "helping" them.
These things are real.
They exist, and to most people they`re not a great sign.
To most peeps they're a massive indication that your performance in life is suffering.
They're evidence the demands attention, fast, or evidence that can be ignored and result in life spiraling to shit.
To most people this evidence matters, and is more than enough to take action on.
I said I noticed this evidence in people, and I do.
And chances are, if I looked at your life, I'd notice some of it as well.
My question is... do you see it in your own life too? And does it inspire you to look deeper into how success-coaching can help?
Do you have any of this evidence in your life? And if so, what does it mean to you?
If you said 'no' to the above question... chances are you're lying to yourself.
Why? Because almost the world's entire population is lying to themselves.
They've forgotten how to see things for how they are, they've forgotten how to admit and accept all their lives.
I don’t care who you are, nearly every human being on the planet is deluding themselves.
I like to think my undying dedication to deep truth, non-judgment, acceptance and spinning ‘negatives’ into positive, makes me a bit different – but I’m very, very open to the fact that I may be deluding myself too.
Like a child, I may be tricked for a while, but deep down I know what's right, and what's true, and I aim to keep in-line with that.
If you’re not satisfied in your life, if you feel just “fine”, if you want more… chances are it’s already yours. It’s at your fingertips, waiting for you.
But before things can change, you need to accept the truth of things.
People go through life doing millions of things every day that they honestly don’t know the real reason they did it or said it. Even if you ask them, they’ll manufacture reasons, and there’s tons of evidence for this.
95% of the U.S. population see themselves as above average communicators. This is a) physically impossible, b) ridiculous, and c) when someone actually IS a superior communicator, and claims it, no one believes them.
This is a result of the “above average” effect. This effect causes people to overestimate their positive qualities and abilities and to underestimate their negative qualities, relative to others.
People trick themselves all day long, and then they lie to others, even people trying to help them.
They’re not in tune with themselves, their emotions, thoughts, or motivations.
Even if peeps wanna live better, they’re lying to themselves too much to even realize what need changed, what’s involved, who can help, or what the best solution for them is.
A success-coach would almost certainly help in major, major ways. But they run through the same scripts of solving super-basic problems like “what to make for dinner” or going through the motions in a relationship, or making the same art they’ve always made.
Even if they come across someone who can help them pinpoint their blocks, help them get clear on a solution, and help start down a new path… they remain blind, avoid those conversations, and make partnering up with a coach a super-low priority.
What a sorry situation.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Silvana was a model-turned-cupcake-baker, and she was proud she’d begun her own journey, taking bold steps most are too scared to.
She’d had a few relationships, and her current boyfriend was “above average.” She had lots of advice from all kinds of ‘experts’. But something wasn’t quite right.
Scratch that, many things weren’t quite right, and she felt they were all related. Something was holding her back, but she had no idea how.
And she was busy. Oh so busy.
She definitely didn’t wake up in the morning, sit down to a warm, soothing coffee, and think “Hmm,which life-coach is right for me?”
Like most people, she guzzled the coffee and dove into fray of projects and relationships.
She had a routine.
It was a routine she fought hard for, and it beat the chaos of starting something new… didn’t it?
She’d run her company, play the same game, with the same people, and get generic advice that “worked for others”… this was the process, and Silvana’s life didn’t really get noticeably better.
It plateau’d and status-quo’d, when she wanted to explode.
And it wasn’t like she didn’t try.
She tried taking up new hobbies, and reading self-help books. They were cookie-cutter and stale. All experts seemed to have a 5-step system that were fun experiments, but mostly ineffective busy work.
Notice a theme with the solutions she tried?
They were steps she could take alone, without asking for help.
They were steps in her comfort zone. They focused on ‘doing’ things instead of hunting for inner-truths and self-awareness.
They avoided reality.
Sil desperately needed fresh input & ideas made specifically to help her ryze. She needed deep truths delivered in a sexy way, that fit with her lifestyle and identity.
And that sets the stage.
Most people have made it so they can live a life of pain.
They've gotten numb and comfortable in their frustrations.
They've given up trying to solve anything, and get pissed off at anyone who reminds them that they have dreams and a desire for life beyond numb emotional pain.
In the last section, I explained how most peeps are lying to themselves.
Well.. not only are you lying to yourself, but you're like a whipped dog, abused so often that you've accepted daily beatings as normal.
Not a pretty sight.
Let's say you share a new idea or big dream with someone, and they discourage it with objections, or with an unenthusiastic change of topic.
But if they're friends or family, you've probably thought something like "Oh well, that's life, that's just how they are."
Or let's say you try to help your clients or collaborate with a partner and they ignore you, betray you, or fail to recognize your contributions.
Their actions are a source of frustration.
But you might think "I've gotta compromise, compromise is how people get along."
If people can't see a solution, they'll instead numb themselves to the pain, put it to the back of their mind, minimize it's affects...
... and live with it forever.
Do you want to ignore, mask, and numb your pains, never stepping up and doing anything about 'em?
Do you wanna be given the chance, the opportunity to release the pain permanently and sky-rocket your life?
What if you had a passionate, powerful, game-changing coach right in the palm of your hand, would you consider using him to lighten your life and relieve your burden and move you forward...
...instead of holding your compromises and haters deep inside you?
You’re already ahead of most people.
Your heart and soul bolted you far beyond the meandering corpses that let fear cripple them.
You’ve seen them delay their dream life, sometimes for decades, living in misery and compromise… sometimes forever.
You’re not like them.
You’ve already made some bold moves, and major decisions in your life that most people wouldn’t dare.
You know how to enjoy the pleasures of life… good food, wine, chocolate, music, and exercise out in the fresh air are all fuel for your daily venture.
You’ve experienced some success already… and understand with every cell in your body that your positive attitude and sheer determination can lead to real change
You don’t want to settle for an average ordinary life.
But how long has it been since you let your ideas, brilliance and insight lead you on a new journey?
When was the last time you told your man or woman about one of your secret dreams and desires?
Has it been ages since you actually worked on that wonderful beautiful creation of yours that the world is waiting for?
Do you remember when you’ve gone to bed at night filled with gratitude because you realized that you absolutely loved how you spent every single fucking minute of the day?
Heh… it’s probably been awhile, eh?
Are you ready to take the next step in creating an epic new life for yourself?
The ambitious young man spent all his time and energy trying to replicate the success of others, when he knew he should've instead been unleashing his unique gifts & secret sauce. Deep down, he knew what he needed, but he was on auto-pilot, blindly trying one piece of advice after another. Secretly he knew the books, exercises, and all he'd tried didn’t work because he'd abandoned the most game-changing learning tool he had. He used to have parents for it. Then teachers for it. And now that he was older and had set out on his own... well, now he had no one for it, and wasn't even looking.
What is this key tool that he needed so desperately -- and that every high achiever in the entire world uses --sooner-not-later?
Simple. It was 1-on-1, human-to-human...
And you know what? I never had a coach, or even someone offer to really help or guide me.
I had to do so much... alone.
For many years I had not a single person to express my deep desires and dreams to.
The coaching process is so
strong that you don’t even need a “super coach” to make
a major impact your life. Just by meeting with
people on a regular basis week in and week out for 6 months or more, people will get much closer to their goals than they ever would on their own. Why?
Most people will never have someone that they can talk to about their goals and dreams and the challenges that they're having in getting there. Most people will never experience
this even onec, let alone on a regular basis.
I had no one.
And it was one of the deepest pains I've ever felt.
And I want better for you.
For my entire life, I, Jason “J-Ryze” Fonceca have uplifted people as easily as breathing. I’ve been called a 'rockstar urban shaman' & ‘The Ferrari Of Life-Coaching’
Born of a faithful Mom and a savant engineer Dad, I combine their loving intuition & high-integrity problem-solving, to unblock the lives of ambitious creatives. My 30,000 hours studying art, media, and timeless wisdom add a certain style to it all.
I do this because I'm born to do it.
Even when I ran other businesses, like my web design company, what clients really wanted, and took from me, was positive guidance, encouragement, and real, deep truths.
Even when doing it earned me no points with friends and family, still I kept putting myself out there, unable to turn it off, coaching others like breathing.
Even when I couldn't explain the value of it, and people wouldn`t see that a conversation with me was life-changing, and I was ignored by almost everyone, still I coached.
I do this because I know what it's like to be blessed with big dreams and big talent to match, but to continually fail and frustrate, over and over.
I do this because I know what it's like to settle, compromise, and play small, when you wanna play big.
I do this because I know what it's like to be isolated, with little support.
It's lonely at the top, and it's lonely on your journey out of the depths.
I've been put on earth, because I get it, and I'm here for you.
I do this because I'm born to do it.
I do it because I've a unique blend of faith in humanity, blazing intellect, and a worldview of life-as-art.
I do it because directing conversations to new, powerful places is thrilling to me.
I do it to feel powerful, generate economic value, and yes, to show off.
I do this because I love timeless, sexy success.
I 'get' the hunger for money, fame, sex, status, adventure, new experiences, and bragging rights, and in my world, they go hand-in-hand with fun, noble, contributions to human legacy and peace-of-mind.
Like a performer on stage, I adore praise, applause, and people vibin'with me. Like an entertainer, I love seeing as many others moved to smiles as possible.
I do this because I'm born to do it, and I'll do it to my grave, which many times has seemed closer than I'd like.
I have really thick glasses and a powerful perscription. It’s kind of ironic.
See... I’m a very creative & visual guy. I have a huge art background and have created everything from graphics to fine art to paintings, to animations & videos, to poems to articles to books, everything found at RyzeOnline.com, and more -- all at high skill levels. I love seeing things. And I especially love seeing things for others who may not see as clearly.
I’ve studied great minds from Buddha & Osho to Tolle & Walsch to Robbins & Rohn. I've even dived into provocateurs like Daedone, Chia, & Deida... and so many more. I love knowing things. And I especially love sharing that knowledge with others who may not know as well.
I’ve absorbed over 10 terabytes of pop culture & media, from Bruce Lee to Jay-Z; from Wonder Woman to New Girl. 1000s of movies, 10s of 1000s of songs, and 1,000,000s of words. I love beautifying things. And I especially love beautifying things that are often not considered beautiful, like taboos, timeless wisdom, and negative emotions.
I’m here to create a timeless, success-focused way of living, where we all see clearer, share more wisdom, & we do it with fun & style. Wanna join me?
World-shaking power’s at your fingertips. There’s a secret that’s worked through the ages & you can technically use it. Except you can’t.
Why? ‘Cause to access it, takes rare decisions.
Simple decisions, sure, but sadly... one’s you probably won’t make. Wanna know what these decisions are?
We’ll get into it. Follow along :)
Now, Silvana had a friend – Jason - who was a success-coach. His talents seared into his blood since birth. She had a good relationship with him, and knew deep down that he was a magical, exceptional human being, ‘causein times of trouble he was always a positive influence and a rock-solid friend.
His insight and integrity were off-the-charts, unlike most of the more ‘targeted’, ‘systemized’ ‘experts’ she knew. Her marketing teacher, the blogs & books she read, the people who’d somehow achieved what she wanted… never really seemed to offer anything that totally clicked, right then and there in the moment, and never offered anything that sent ripples throughout the rest of her life.
But if she had a problem, a brief, open-minded chat with Jason always delivered powerful transformation and a new emotional barometer, every time.
She didn’t think about it much, and it’s not like he ever came out and said anything, but that`s what happened, every time.
The most he’d say about his skills was to cockily joke “I’m a lover in my mind and a fighter if it’s time.”
Nope, he didn`t move the conversation towards his talents – instead he just helped Silvana openly, with anything and everything he could.
“Hah,” she thought “Jason half emotion-detective, half thought-doctor.”
Jay got right to the heart of the problem and relieved it, his words were like salve… or a scalpel if Silvana felt like being stubborn ;)
One night Silvana was watching an interview on 60 minutes with Eminem as he talked about the power, impact, and game-changing effects of his personal friend and mentor, Dr. Dre.
The funny thing is, even knowing Jason, and hearing famous achievers talk about the power of having real, true-blue coaches on their team… it never occurred to Silvana to pay Jason, hire him, or bring him on board as life-long coach, the way that athletes and performers do.
Her mind wandered as she chopped veggies for dinner. The TV droned on.
Halfway through the show, the phone rang.
You know what’s frustrating? Spending all your time and energy trying to replicate the success of others, when you should be spending time unleashing your secret sauce.
But this is what the experts do, they teach you to copy them.
How often do you hear ‘the experts’ telling you to be creative, follow your heart, do what feels right, rock the boat, or to disagree with them?
They‘ve dedicated their lives to mastering some process, and getting it more and more efficient. Which is great, I applaud ‘em. It also has a side-effect.
It turns people into numbers that can be ‘funneled’ through their marketing machines.
And people believe being processed like this will help them. And it does. A bit.
But overall, the experts frustrate me. And then they tell me I should “be an expert” too.
And what’s more frustrating, to me? Is that deep down, people know what they need.
They know they don’t need another ‘system’.
Somewhere deep down they know why the books, and exercises, and all they’ve tried doesn’t work.
It was her boyfriend Ross, she knew she should talk to him but she was tired and just wanted to unwind from the day and eat.
“Ross, I’m kinda busy with dinner…”
“Uh, yeah, well, we needa talk…”
Sil stopped chopping veggies, as Ross arranged a time and place to have a ‘talk’.
She hung up the call feeling nauseous, because she knew what was coming.
“Seriously?” she thought. Sil knew she was sexy, her days modeling taught her that. She made okay money with her cup-cake business, she was a catch, right? Was something wrong with her?
Her mind started on an emotional downward spiral as she examined flaws, replayed recent fights, and felt guilty about her frequency, performance, and inhibitions in the bedroom.
She wanted so much more out of life. She wanted to feel loved, and have someone who grew with her and believed in her.
She wanted to use her talents to touch the hearts of many, to make an impact and leave a legacy.
She had so much ambition, and here she was dealing with crumbling relationships.
It wasn’t right, she thought as she cried.
After the tears stopped, she felt empty and raw.
She wanted to call her Mom, but her Mom thought she shouldn’t be so ambitious, and should just “accept her lot in life” anyway.
She thought of calling Dad, but it was like talking to a wall, he’d just shrug. He never knew what to say.
She considered calling girlfriends but their nature was just to label Ross an ‘asshole’, tell her she was perfect, and although it felt nice, it delivered zero results. In fact, it made her feel on less equal ground with Ross, more distant.
Hmm… what about a therapist? Nah, she dismissed it.
She’d tried it before when she was young. Every one of ‘em just dredged up her past, got her to vent until she was calm, sent her away, and had her repeat next session.
Some even prescribed drugs whos side effects made her bloated.
(For someone who loved beauty and her body so much, it was a nightmare.)
She flipped on the last 6 minutes of 60 minutes, and suddenly it hit her.
And then another thought…
Why is Jason last on my list?
She felt even more guilty.
Was she mistreating Ross *and* mistreating one of her oldest friends?
Jay’s wonderful at solving complex, confusing, intense negatives situations like this. No drugs, no millions of sessions, just epic results from a simple-but-deep chat.
Why turn last to someone who’s brimming with love & acceptance, not one topic has ever been awkward with him. From her Grandma’s death, to losing her virginity, to when she felt suicidal.
And then it hit her.
She only called him when things were crisis-level bad. And even then, she never paid him for his help, even though his gift was the only way he made his living.
And then something else hit her…
The reason she called him so rarely is because she wanted his help, but knew if she asked for it too often, she’d feel obligated to pay for it.
There was literally no one she could call, her #1 choice was last on her list, and she felt guilty for even approaching him now.
She’d taken his value for granted for way too long.
She felt she’d have to just dump a few thousand in his lap, simply to “even the score” for herself, mentally.
Silvana’s eyes were already red and dry, but she started crying again.
And then the phone rang again.
This time she let it ring, feeling she was in no condition to answer.
But her conscience nagged at her. “You’re about to get dumped and have what may be one of the most painful chats with Ross ever, and someone is reaching out to you.
It`s a sign.
Pick it up.
Sil knew when her conscience started slapping her around, she better listen.
She forced herself to stop crying as best as she could and picked up.
There's a reason books & exercises suck for people, it’s ’cause they really need a…
Peyton Manning’s got 3 coaches. 3 of ‘em for 3 different areas of life and football. Lady Gaga’s loves Deepak Chopra.
Many gigantic celebs hire coaches early, and stick with them for life.
‘Cause 1-to-1, human interaction with someone who’s natural-born talent is to see & focus on your success is off-the-charts fulfilling.
‘Cause someone who guides you to unlocking the best parts of you, is more powerful than any drug.
‘Cause coaching has a faster, more noticeable, and more permanent affect than any surgery or pill.
Coaching done right unlocks happier, more powerful, more beautiful versions of you.
So why don’t more people step up to the plate and get themselves a super-high end luxury coach, even when I offer 80% off my normal fee?
Oh wait, most people think they "don’t need coaching… "
If you’re one of the one’s who thinks they “dont need a coach”, you’re in for a shock.
Because you’re wrong. Believe me, or don’t believe me, I’m not here to sugar coat it, and I’m not here to convince you.
You can go through life thinking "I don’t need a coach" while happier people get a handle on life, and do what it takes to get a mentor.
If you think you don’t need a coach, and I mean need, you are flat out f***ing wrong.
I don’t care if you’re Oprah or Obama. I don’t care if you’re Mandela. I don’t care if you’re Lady Gaga. It might not be public knowledge, their coach may not have been official (but maybe they should have), point is -- they had at least one.
“Heeeeeyyyy sexy! Long time! Wait -- <sniff?> Are you okay? What’s the matter?”
It was Jason.
She was torn between putting on a brave face, being a normal human being, and treating him well instead of using him for his gift for once, and coming clean, being honest and just letting it all out.
As if reading her mind, he filled in the silence…
“Come on, Sil, you know I judge nothin’ – get your shit together, be real, lemme in.”
This guy gets me.
Maybe I *should* dump Ross and date him…
“And by ‘lemme in’ I don’t mean let me physically be inside you -- though you know I love anything remotely on those lines.”
OMGomgOMG, his flirting made her smile in spite of herself.
“This IS myself, Sil. I love sex and I don’t hide it. But I also love being awesome, helping people, and doing the right thing, so don’t get your panties in a bunch – and I can still hear the sniffles even if I do make ya laugh. So focus and share and don't let my flirty self distract you. Otherwise, I’ll feel annoyed that you’re avoiding deeper topics in favor of bullshit small talk.”
“Sigh, I know, I know, okay…”
Well, looks like that decision was taken out o her hands. But then, that was Jay. He was like a giant ballof decision, a sun radiating light and direction.
“Jay, I’m just so frustrated. CupcakeNation’s growth has plateau’d, I just keep pouring hours into the business which takes away my energy and time, so when I come home I don’t really pay attention to Ross. Mom’s always on my back to give up on C. Nation if I ever hint it feels like too much, some support there, eh? She also keeps hinting that Ross is a good man and I’m gonna lose him.”
Silvana started crying again.
“I’m sorry, I should go…”
“No, Sil, crying is amazing, it’s beautiful, if I’m gonna be honest, it usually gets me laughing or turned on in response, lol, like that’s normal."
Sil gave a slight smile.
"What I’m saying is, I’m here, I wanna help, and if your body feels like crying, for once don’t repress it for society, bosses, customers, family, etc.
Let it out.”
Silvana had a million thoughts racing through her head. Everything from “Wow, I’m blessed with an amazingly unique friend,” to “Fuck Ross, Jason = dream man.”
“Sniff… Ok, um, Ross just finished telling me he wants to have a talk with me.”
“And I’m not stupid. I have feelings and intuition, and I know what he really means.”
“He means to break up.”
“You sure? No other possibility?”
“I just know it.”
“Well, k, trust your feelings.”
“And to top it all off, I put on a 5 pounds in the last two weeks!”
“And I screwed up a big customer order last Fri –“
“Sorry, I had to interrupt you – I get all you’re saying, trust me. You don’t need to spend time on every little detail, and it just makes things worse if you do. Do you need like a kind, empathetic girly ear to rant to, or do you want actual wisdom and solutions?”
“Sniff.. ok, yes, I want solutions.”
“Good. Because I care about you, and I want you shinin’ -- ready?”
“K, then follow along.”
Even coaches need coaching.
I need coaching.
Humanity’s a social species, we interact. And interacting with people who can see more / better than us, we ryze.
We get blind spots that can be illuminated by a coach.
We get new views from a coach that changes everything.
We get set upon new paths and get new results through a coach.
All solutions putting an end to old, non-working ways.
Anyway, if you’re like most people — you need coaching. And if you got coaching you’d be so fast on your path to paradise, people’s heads would spin, many would be shocked at the new you…
Stats say that you won’t invest in coaching, even though it’s The Most Necessary Service Around. It’s as important as the food industry, because keeping the body alive is useless... if people aren’t happily rocking life.
We don’t need more zombies, robots, and hollowmen who keep their bodies alive and simply go through the motions.
That’s not evolution, baby.
Although the personal development industry is huge, most of the dollars go to ebooks, audiobooks, webinars, etc. – it takes a real badass to hire a coach.
You can be the person who buys some low-commitment, low-investment audiobook, and hope it really changes your life.
Or you can enter a 1-to-1 conversation with Jason “J-Ryze” Fonceca, and experience his next-level diagnostic
reasoning. You gotta be ready though.
Because she was pretty, Silvana was used to guys a) listening to her words and b) believing them, but Jason saw through everything. He knew what was up, and when. He knew the real truth, her hidden secrets. A lot of the time it felt like he knew her better than she knew herself.
She didn’t know exactly how he did it, but she figured it was his natural gifts for awareness, his virgo-related attention to detail and high-standards, and his deep love of wisdom, truth, and knowledge.
He had more of that than anyone!
She shook her head and realized she’d missed a tiny bit of what he’d said.
He hated that, but he’d hate it more if she lied or didn’t admit she spaced out.
“Umm, sorry, J, could you repeat that I kinda spaced out.”
Silvana cringed a bit as she interrupted him.
He laughed. “Hah, focus girl! Okay, I was saying… Most people think they have to tackle all these problems one by one. Customers, business, time management, boyfriend, etc… that’s why they list them all and focus on each one individually… yes, or no?”
“Err… they do have to tackle ‘em one by one, don’t they?”
“K, look, I asked you a yes or no, just tell me straight up what you believe. If you believe yes, gimme a solid yes, if it’s anything but a 100% solid yes, I’m taking it as no, k?”
“LOL okay, okay. But like, I’m unsure if it’s true.”
“Then that’s a NO. Which is fine, I judge nothing, I just want what you really believe deep down, as fast and powerfully as possible. Know what I’m sayin’?”
“Okay, cool, so no then.”
“Then let me ask you this:
If an intersection has tons of traffic accidents, frustrated pedestrians who have to wait too long, too much litter, not enough cop patrols, and various other problems related to all different departments of the city, and a brilliant city planner who can see to the heart of things, realizes that all these problems are caused because there’s too much volume in this area of the city, especially North to South.
So instead of increasing cop coverage, increasing sanitation, messing with traffic light timing, etc., he simply builds another road, an overpass, that runs North to South, right beside it.
1 department, 1 project, 1 investment, and it solves allll the problems, because they were all related to the same root cause.
Does that mean that often times problems we think are too many, and overwhelming might have one sweeping, relatively easy solution, if we look deeper? Yes or no?”
“Ohhhh… wow. Yeah, I get it, I totally see what you’re getting at.”
“I’m not ‘getting at’ anything, crazy girl. I started asking you if you believed one thing, now I wanna know if you believe another, and I can’t help you if you don’t co-operate, I don’t ask for much, just honesty. Imagine if we were having sex, and I said ‘do you like this?’ and you said ‘I see what you’re getting at…’ “
“Haha, LOL, okay, okay, yes. Yes. Yes, Jason, yes. I believe its possible that many problems may have one root solution.”
Sheesh, Jay was like a dog with a bone, so focused on his yes & no’s. I’d gotten used to it but it`d been awhile since I experienced him with his “coach-mode” turned on.
“Is it likely that I’ll spot these easier than you, since I’ve done it since I was a kid?”
“Yes, I believe that.”
“So will you take it on faith that I can see the root solution for you in all the problems you listed?”
“Wow. Damn. Okay, yes. Totally.”
“Phew, good, now maybe this stubborn conversation will go smoother…”
`Cause that would mean admitting flaws, or admitting that someone might be able to zero in on things you couldn`t.
That’d mean getting the whole, real truth from someone who "gets it", instead of living your comfortable lies.
Yes, coaching is one of the most powerful forces on the planet, literally transforming minds and bodies through the power of trust, focus, & influence.
And it’s not hard to access it. It’s easy in fact.
Except, being coached means you have to swallow hard truths.
It means you’ve gotta drop your fears and emotions and put yourself in another human beings’ hands. It takes trust.
And here comes the next problem as to why you need coaching but you won’t get it...
...Too many bad apples have already ruined success-coaching for you.
Right now I have a message for all of those who know they need coaching, but delay and delay it:
Maybe you’ve invested in consulting, etc. before. Maybe they sucked. Maybe they helped you a bit, but didnt do anything truly impactful. Or maybe you went to them when you weren’t ready, and if they were good coaches, they kicked your ass to the curb.
Whatever the case...
Silvana was feeling tons better, she could see a light on the horizon, and she was thanking every god she knew of over and over that Jason decided to call, and that she had the guts to answer.
She saw huge possibilities opening up through Jason’s wisdom, and she was almost looking forward to her meeting with Ross, if she was armed with solutions.
Now that she was laughing and calmer… one thing was bothering her though. She had to speak up…
“Jay, um, I’m paying attention, and I really appreciate your help, in fact, I feel so much better already, and we haven’t even really talked about your ideas to help me… but…”
“Well, I realized something, and it’s pretty embarrassing and I don’t want you to hate me…”
“OMG girl, just spit it out – how many times do I have to tell you, I’m by far the safest human being you can ever express to… ever. EVAR!”
Silvana, like many people, got a bit uncomfortable when discussing value, worth, money, business, pleasure, and relationships.
She took a deep breath, and got ready to say what she needed to say...
Whatever the case…
They’re small players, coaching almost as an afterthought.
These are the manufactured coaches.
They coach even though it’s not really what they’re good at.
They haven’t coached since birth, they don’t have 30,000 hours studying timeless wisdom and pop-culture, they don’t have an ultra-elite skillset geared 100% towards it.
They have nice marketing materials and advertising dollars, and some big connections, and that`s about it.
But these coaches get all the attention.
Maybe you've seen 'em:
Here’s a hint, if someone is teaching you to do what they did… they’re NOT teaching you to be yourself, which is the key to true success.
Here’s a hint, if they waste precious moments of 1-to-1 coaching time letting you vent and wander in the past -- which is totally irrelevant -- instead of focusing on you, your value, your power, what you want and where you wanna be… they’re NOT coaching you, they’re babysitting you.
Here’s a hint: these peeps were born with gifts for singing, or athleticism, or business or whatever — but they weren’t born with gift of wisdom, advice & guidance. They don’t live and breathing, teaching, elevation and communication.
They don’t "get life" in "big picture" ways that matter, most coaches only understand "a tiny corner of life."
And yes, all three of the above are awesome people, they help, they run great businesses. They’re amazing at what they do. They’re great at many things.
I’ve got a lot of respect for ‘em.
But they weren’t put on this earth to be success-coaches. For reals.
And they aren’t here to help others achieve new personal heights and ryze up in the deeper, more game-changing parts of life.
They won’t give fresh views on taboos. They don’t "get it" if you happen to enjoy drugs. They have strong moral opposition to polyamory.
Basically, most coaches. . . judge.
They wanna coach you, sure — but all they can do is judge you and turn them into clones of themselves.
They just offer tiny little slices of what you need, ’cause that’s all they have.
But people everywhere run and spend their hard-earned money on these ‘hollow-coaches.’
And some people learn… a bit.
“LOL, okay, well, I feel I’ve kinda taken you for granted for a long time. You’ve helped me over and over with any problem I’ve had, and it’s your job, and I don’t support you. I don’t pay you. I don’t even tell other people about you because none of them seem interested in life-coaching.”
“Success-coaching, and Sil, please, don’t worry. I do it for me. I’ve been burned so many times, betrayed, beaten and used. Arrested, ignored, homeless and more. I know when someone’s using me. And unlike most people you click all my links, read all my posts, and I can totally feel your growth and ambition, and I know that one day you’ll be playing with even bigger players or meet people who are hungry for coaching, and you’ll send ‘em to me.”
“Yeah, maybe but look, for my own piece of mind, let me pay you.”
“Hah, I rarely turn down money, I love money, Sil. I definitely accept.
But let me tell you a little secret. In this world, people are clear that when they’re hungry – get food! That’s easy to understand. When people need a place to keep their funds, it’s easy to understand: get a bank account.
But here’s the thing… most people live lives in frustration, overwhelment, boredom, anger, even depression – they’re often dissatisfied with something… for years, and take no steps to improve it.
People get hungry = get food, money = get bank, but they have no clue that ‘status quo’ = get life-coach who soothes and smoothes and elevates life.
This especially applies to ambitious, creative types who look at their lives and think ‘I’m doing better than most people, I don’t need any help’. They’re often experiencing boredom, or bland contentment, when connecting with a success-coach would help them hit the next level instead of burning through their years playing small.
Basically, as a success-coach, I’ve never met a person or problem I couldn’t guide towards success, if they invited, co-operated, and I felt called to.
I can literally provide insane value to almost anyone. I’m a rare breed, and I know it, and I don’t pretend otherwise.
Most people are blind to how badly they need a coach, and how much benefit their life would have if they raised their standards emotionally, mentally, and physically, and started living life from that place…”
Jason took a deep breath and sighed.
“Aaaaaaannnnnnd there’s absolutely no reason you should be any different.”
Silvana was faced with the truth, she was a lot like the type Jay described.
He chuckled, “Not ouch! Just a fact. Some things are cheap, easy sells that appeal to the masses, like candy and movies. Other things are challenging sells like beautiful luxury items, appealing to 1% of the earth who ‘get it’. I’m not selling candy or movies. I’m not groceries or bank accounts.
I’m true, free-wheeling, limit-breaking growth. I’m timeless wisdom in a pop package – but stay tuned, there are creative ways to have the best of both worlds.”
Wow, he painted a bleak picture where no one even knew life-coaching mattered, and then he smiled and laughed and said it was fine. Who does that? Silvana wanted to encourage him.
She believed in him.
“Well, you deserve an easy sell, and people getting you. Me included. So I’m sorry for the past, but moving forward, anytime you’re in full coach mode like this, I’m totally gonna note it down, and make sure you get something for it.”
“You’re a true friend, Sil. Thank you.”
“Hhehe, okay now… about what to do about Ross, work, and life – picture this…”
Because they didn’t learn the shit that matters.
And then people get burned, annoyed that they invested in someone and made no real progress.
If you go out, chasing the people who made their millions by Being Themselves and then you try to follow them, then you’re gonna end up becoming just like them, and less like YOU.
Which is a recipe for pain.
One day I’ll be as big as these hollow-coaches, but I won't be as empty.
It won’t be hard to tell me apart, because Ryze has NEVER chased dollars, never copied others, and has always been true to Ryze.
Ryze is Ryze, for the right reasons.
Not only that, but the Ryze empire is built on timeless, sexy truths that unlock individual power in people, unique to them and their own brand of creativity.
Nothing is done to create a clone of me, not to put you through a 5-step conveyor belt process, and with not a hint of judgment to be found.
Keep chasing the "big boys" as they assume you’re just like them, and they assume all you need is — to do what they did.
Go ahead, follow them, if you want.
And you’ll get stuck.
And the killer?
The real investment was right there for you the whole time.
(ie: Choose Ryze. lol. Or hey, don’t choose Ryze. But choose someone as real as Ryze.)
Choose the friend who always gives you real-talk. Choose the teacher who helps you unleash your real self, without pushing you towards things that don’t suit you.
Here’s a hint, if someone is teaching you to do what they did… they’re NOT teaching you to be yourself, which is the key to true success:
Ages 0-12, we learn from parents because they’re the closest thing to us.
Ages 12-27, we learn from teachers ’cause our parents "people make us".
Ages 27+ … we just stop, get stuck, and make agonizingly slow progress
Yep, I said it.
Most of us at quarterlife, basically stop learning-on-purpose.
Or at least, we stop deliberately seeking teaching, coaching, or guidance to be better.
At quarter-life, it's no coincidence that we stop having guidance from parents and teachers, and are basically "on-our-own."
The badass move is to let go of parents, put the schools aside, step out and really learn from someone who’s born to coach us.
What can I say, I’m pretty passionate about people ryzing together.
In fact, here’s a passionate excerpt that I said in a private chat with one of my friends (and clients):
"It’s simple: We sit down, 1-to-1 and reveal mind-blowing secrets of the world, TAILORED to A SINGLE person. YOU. I dont offer gimmicks, 5 steps, or mass tactics.
I don’t tell you to REPLICATE me, I teach you to UNLOCK YOU, and I can do it because I judge no one, ever. It’s the best investment you’ll ever make, but keep paying money to the 'billionaire marketers' if it makes you happy. I don’t care "- Me.
There was a farmer who had a flock of sheep, and those sheep gave birth to lambs with human heads.
Worried by this omen the farmer hurried off to consult sages.
One sage told him that the birth of lambs with human heads indicated a matter of life and death for him as the 'head' of the household, and a sacrifice would be required to ward off the danger.
Another sage insisted that this was instead a sign that the man's wife had been unfaithful to him, and that she had passed off other men's sons as his own; this evil omen could only be averted by an even greater sacrifice.
Basically, the sages argued about their ideas with each other, incresing the man's worry.
Aesop also happened to be there, a man who'd truly lived life and who was famous for seeing things others couldn't: like how nature really works, said:
'If you want to fix this,' said Aesop, 'I suggest you supply your shepherds with wives!'
I’m so sick of people playing small, and whining, and getting nothing done and being totally disastisfied.
I really am.
I honestly don’t care who you get coached by (ie: Ashley Ambirge, who’s like a chick, copywriting version of me). I care that ambitious, creative ballers and beauties who’re willing to step up make moves that matter.
I care that they unleash better versions of themselves, not copies of "people who’ve done X or Y."
I care that people USE the POWER of COACHING in their lives. Period.
Whatever you do…
Don’t be one of the people who spin their wheels making almost zero effective steps towards their dreams, living in fear, believing barely in themselves, or anything.
Don’t be that guy or girl who holds back and shuts down and hides their light.
The world needs you.
Collab with me, and let’s all Ryze together.
Most people degrade & devalue themselves over and over, in every tiny day-to-day interaction, never flexing their true power, and it holds them back in every area. Things are related, you need to get it handled.
Maybe you downplay your value without even knowing it.
Take a ride with J-Ryze and get right to the heart of things... fast.
Most people settle for unenthusiastic response, people poking holes, and total inattention from others about their bold ideas and passions. These are friends & circles who quietly discourage.
Most people settle for life-partners that steer them away from their deep-seated dreams.
Most people settle for jobs or careers that fulfill like, a certain percentage of things, but falls flat on others. Maybe it provides travel but no family time. Maybe it provides family time, but not enough income to expand. Whatever, people settle for bosses that don't truly want them to Ryze up!
Most people cater to others, holding back their true feelings and expressions and tailoring their words to please others.
if you feel these things, or have any other issue in life that needs a fresh view...
I wanna help you.
I can't help you if neither of us are on the same page, or if we aren't clear on what impact coaching has on your life.
Many people aren't clear.
So lemme ask you a couple questions...
If I can show you how Ryze delivers 300-500% the results of other life-coaches in less than 10% of the time, would you agree that's worth investing in?
Sounds bold, I know, but stay with me, for another question.
If I can show you that instead of spending days with their materials, you can get similar benefits from 1-3 sessions with me, would you agree to buy it?
What if being coached was something to show off, instead of embarassingly swept under the rug or kept 'private'?
For example, if I showed you how Ryze was coaching you could be proud of, brag about, and make it a shining part of your identity, would that get you saying yes to purchase?
Good. Ok. Let's take a look and see, together.
My father's a genius engineer who loves machines, especially cars. He built a Lamborghini, bought my Mom a Mustang, and even owned more than one motorcycle at one point.
I have not. But that doesn’t mean I’ve never ridden in a jaw-droppingly fast luxury vehicle. (I have.) And it doesn’t mean that I don’t absolutely adore power, speed, and sexiness. (I do.)
And the one that always comes to my mind will surprise you. I’ve heard Dad talk about all kinds of cars, but one stuck out in my mind: The Ferrari Spyder Convertible.
Although Dad only mentioned the Spyder once, he went into exquisite detail about the sublime Mistubishi engine under the hood. He raved about the lines, class, & style. He spoke of indulging in a car meant for only two to soar down the road together. His words lay buried in my mind as I struggled & failed over and over to find my place in life. I knew I was close with my coaching others, since I had such a natural gift for it, but something still wasn’t right. Until one day, a client said “Dude, you’re like The Ferrari Of Life-Coaching!”
And then it clicked. 'Top down, system up', luxury-grade life-coaching. Coaching that's a cut above.
Picture it: Me driving (the conversation), a hand-selected passenger (client) by my side, as we blaze our own trail down the race-track (of their personally defined success).
The pulsing hum of the ‘engine’, my heart and mind, smoothly moving from feeling, to thought, to belief, switching gears with precise timing. Utterly in the zone while my passenger whoops & shouts with glee. We both transported to a knew, unleashed, free-wheeling version of ourselves that rockets us even further than we imagined. What a rush.
And when all’s said and done? We’re both changed. Our hair’s blown back, and we wanna do it again, and at the same time we want a small break. Some recovery time to process the experience.
We get out on shaky legs, look around, and realize we’re in a new place, we have new standards for travelling our journey, and neither of us ever again wants to go back to 'taking the bus.'
Yep, every time I think of my father and cars, I remember that life offers many different kinds of journeys, and when it comes down to it, life’s short, and there’s zero reason to hold back on the gas.
I like my coaching like I like my cars, powerful, fast, and oh-so-sexy, how about you? ;)
Ryze doesn’t deal in ‘normal’, ‘average’ knowledge - what you’re about to receive is already working it’s magic and improving your life. Get psyched, because doors are opening, and this is just a taste of what Ryze has to offer.
You'd normally commit 3 days, a week, or even a year for coaching, often just to solve a single problem.
If you’re co-operative, Ryze helps you get 3-5 issues released in an hour.
... is that they have limited vision and fail to see your true power and potential.
Secretly, coaches know that they can only help people go as far and as fast in life as THEY see themselves as capable of, or are capable of imagining.
You can't give someone love if you don't love yourself. You can't offer support unless you support yourself.
And most importantly for coaching, you can't help others achieve greatness and success unless you see it for yourself.
Most coaches DON'T wanna create an empire or take over the world or shape evolution for years to come. I do.
Most coaches aren't ambitious, and so confident it almost hurts. I am.
Most sit down with you for a seminar and they help you solve 1 minor problem that’s been troubling you for a while.
They give you 'homework' exercises mainly because you haven't really changed or learned what they're teaching. They go at babysteps pacing, forcing you into monthly check-ups and 'accountability sessions'. There's lots to memorize and they accept almost anyone - not special, not exclusive, and minimal committment needed.
That prevents other coaches from delivering these results, is that they work with almost anyone.
They work with people who don't trust them. They work with people who need tons of convincing. They work with closed minds who are practically fighting change.
Ryze is the Ferrari of Life-Coaching and I work with only those who are hungry, open-minded, passionate, committed, trusting, and truly ready to ryze.
Ryze is ultra-exclusive, helping the truly ambitious & creative.
Eff that. You aren't here to drive.
You're with Mario Andretti. You're with Kenny Block. You're cruisin' in the Ferrari Of Life-Coaching and it's a ride you have the chance to take others on, when it's over. You can even bail-out if you get scared...
...but you have to release control. With Ryze you don't get to drive.
If you want truly massive results in your life, you've gotta be badass-- you've gotta trust someone.
This isn't therapy, this is success-coaching.
You've gotta shut up, listen, and give your full attention.
You've gotta be open minded to ideas that may offend you, you've gotta focus, and answer exactly what's asked.
Even though I was born with tons of wisdom and intelligence, there was a hard phase in my life. I've been through hell and back, and I'm here to help you.
If you feel good about me, if you believe we can rock life together, then drop your guard, show you're committed and let's get you Ryzing
Ryze delivers what most have forgotten. A digital wise man. A rockstar urban shaman, 1-on-1... for you.
It can be yours, you don't have to settle for run-of-the-mill help, or reading yet another book.
I know you can do better.
I know your time is precious.
I know that less is more.
I know that the two of us co-operating together, ultra-focused on win-win solutions can easily trump a single issue per call. Ryze regularly blasts through 3-5 epiphanies that've been troubling clients for years in a super-short time.
Short calls: avg 3+ issues solved per call - so you save time & money.
Fresh views on taboos: Real talk on sex, money, fame, etc. - so you get direct results on things that are usually hidden.
Homework only given if it fits you specifically - so you don't waste time with busy work.
New experience: let coach direct call pace & focus - so you have a barely-any-thinking needed chat, and we can focus on what matters.
Real-talk: ‘Soup Nazi’ styles, if you’re too stubborn. - so you remember emotionally, with your whole body.
Floodgate thoughts: Just one of these unlocks huge possibilities - so you shatter the limits of your old life.
The Ferrari of Life-Coaching will take you fast and far, if you`re willikng to kick it into gear and handle the corners.
I can turn any weakness into a strength. I can turn any negative into a positive. Watch the demo and see.
Your life has tons of potential, and I help you see, shedding light on what matters.
Together, we'll zero in on your main blocks and problems from barely even a sentence.
I interrupt, focus, and redirect the conversation to win-win, lasting improvements.
I encourage and accept and allow, my only agenda helping you improve your life in lasting ways that deeply satisfy.
A conversation with me is a game-changer.
And unlike most life-coaches, being coached by Ryze is a badge of honor. It’s bragging rights. It’s a way to say “I live better.” It’s a way of showing that you stand for timeless, sexy success.
Click play to check it out.
Wanna know how Ryze delivers such awesome results?
Well, it's seven surprisingly steps. And they all happen in a short conversation, so it should be something anyone can do, right? Maybe... but so far,I'm the only one I know who's masterful at it :)
Only a tiny bit, because Ryze aims for lightning fast results, and leverages deep levels of understanding, wisdom and insight - this means no wasted conversation and you trust Ryze in the driver's seat :)
Interrupting is key because it keeps things focused and sets up a very different kind of conversation than you're used to, which makes your brain very receptive. Being receptive when you're with someone who's ultra-focused, 100% on your success is ultra-effective.
I ask a question that zeroes in on a belief you hold and that we can build on. This is usually a 'yes' or 'no' answer.
While the question is so simple, even a child could answer it almost immediately, it will also zero in on something concrete about your understanding of life.
This springs off the previous question, and quickly builds momentum towards change.
These questions are natural, organic, and inspired. They come quickly and flow like an artist's brush strokes, so I can't tell you what exactly they'll be.
I'm always checking to make sure you openly and whole-heartedly believe your answers.
I'm super-focused on truth.
It's just you and me, and we're co operating to help you rock. It's takes trust, it takes real-ness, and most of all, you have to honestly and powerfully believe your answers -- no half-assing it.
Steps four and five are repeated as quickly as you can handle them -- the faster you're able to say "yes" or "no" (or explain your reasons,) the faster we move towards Powerful Change.
I say there's a limit, but I'm willing to do whatever it takes if you are :)
You came into our chat with a certain worldview and beliefs, together, we took a Q&A journey to a totally logical, emotionally charged new version of you, with a new worldview.
So there you have it :)
It's just questions and answers, right?
It's just a simple chat? A conversation?
Sure, if you believe everything is what it seems, and that talking back-and-forth to a friend or stranger... is just as effective and powerful as letting me lead our conversation together.
If you`ve been paying attention to the testimonials - like a shrewd, attentive ryzing star - then you know that people who chat with me are raving evangelists.
Do you wanna be caught...
Individuals report 4x their investment in value, for only an AVG. life coach!
If the average life coach delivers 4x the value people invest in them, how much more does a high-end, natural born succes-coach like J-Ryze deliver?
Being coached by a great coacht (similar to being raised by a great Mom or taught by a great teacher) is literally one of the most priceless experiences on earth.
Well, investing in Ryze coaching is investing in lasting, impactful attitude adjustments that soothe and spread to every area of your life.
Ryze is the Ferrari of Life-Coaching. It’s faster. It’s sexier. It has more impact.
And just like a Ferrari, not everyone gets access to it.
And just like a Ferrari, once you have access to it, you have to be able to drive it.
So I’ve gotta ask...
Are you truly ready for off-the-charts results? To gain access to Jason “J-Ryze” Fonceca’s rockstar wisdom, 5 conditions must be met:
Ryze is willing to work with you, to do what it takes, to create a solution together. Period. That's all we're about, and it will happen, as long as you do your part.
As long as you're willing to communicate, co-operate, and work together through any 'rough spots' that crop up.
I’ve offered bold, ridiculous, over-the-top guarantees before.
It’s easy to do. I’m happy with my life, and I’m only out to help people — and I know I deliver, and I’m 100% focused on win-win for everyone.
“And I’d take advice from you over Napoleon Hill any day Jason.” – Vanita Cyril
No one’s ever not thrilled about my coaching and guidance. Even people who’ve gone their separate ways, could never say my coaching wasn’t a game-changer for them.
It’s rock-solid, and I can easily write pages guaranteeing it. But I’m not doing that any more — that’s kinda lame to me.
Because it’s a whole bunch of babysitting. It’s all “ohhh, don’t worry, put all your fear aside, Jason’s here, I’ll do all the work for you, you’ll be fine, etc.”
That’s not how life works.
To me, that’s for cowards; if you want that, go find a traditional ‘therapist’ and have sessions for 12 years while you work on one problem.
Ambitious creatives are badass.
Badasses are people who know how to move forward, and take pride in doing what the masses "can’t".
This is NOT for everybody, so I’ll tell you who I don’t work with, and who I do work with:
If that’s you, I’m not sure how you got here, but go find some other coach who wants to cater to your every fear.
If that’s you, I’ll gladly move mountains for you, but you’ve gotta have something in the game.
I have complete confidence in the value I deliver. I have complete confidence that you have what it takes.
I have complete confidence that if you truly wanna succeed, and I truly want you to succeed — then we’ll co-operate, and the insight I offer will match you.
I’m not like other businesses — I don’t do refunds on my time, and life’s too short for “take-backs”.
If you’re not with a coach you trust and get a good vibe from, then why bother?
I’m all about trust, and I’ve earned my trust through a hard life of remaining positive and faithful through multiple rounds of homelessness, betrayal, jail, losing all possessions, and more.
I’ve had my trial by fire, and rocked it.
It’s your turn, and all that’s being asked is a passionately open-mind, an eager investment, and a fun chat.
If you get an awesome vibe from me, and you know we’re a match — let’s rock hard.
But you've gotta step up.
You've gotta put something on the table, and let’s get you to the clarity, insight, and improvement you’re after.
Note: If you’re hesitant or concerned — that’s fine, don’t do it — this isn’t for scared people and it isn’t for you.
It's for positive badasses.